THEN JESUS SAID, “But, do you remember when…”
Nov 12
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LOOKIE ME! I RUN, I DANCE, I STRUT…(for Jesus?)
This one caught me off guard even though I anticipated it. My jaw tightened a little and I noticed I was not looking at Him, but at the trail, not ahead, but at my boots. “Gary, the list of examples I could use for this particular area of your life that didn’t please me is long. I know you know what I’m about to say. It makes both of us sad. But at the time, I was the only sad One.
“You thought–no, you assumed–you were doing My will. But you didn’t stop often enough to check it out with me. Let’s see, how many names can we use to describe this one? There’s ‘busyness,’ of course, and…
“Yeah, there is ‘distraction’ and ‘insensitivity’ and ‘demanding’ and ‘out of touch’. Of course there is–you can admit this now, right?–’CHAOS!’
“If there was anything people would say of you, it was that you were ‘busy about the Father’s work.’ Now that you’re older and wiser…”
I lifted my eyes from the trail, instinctively knowing He’d have a smiley glint in His eyes. Oh, yeah, it was actually a big smile. Up close and personal, there is nothing like the smile on the face of Jesus. Loving yet heart-piercing. It put a light touch to the deep conviction that was tearing at my soul right then.
Jesus went on, “You mostly got it half right, ‘busy’. Not so much the ‘Father’s work’ part.
“Son,” He said for the first time, speaking as the Father, not as my “elder brother.” This was serious. “Son, you didn’t stop often enough in those early busy days of youthful energy and good intention to ask Me what you should be busy about. I gave you unique energy and drive. Yes, you used it mostly for me. That wasn’t enough. I wanted all of you and your energy and your ideas, not most of it.”
“You didn’t notice it, did you?”
Notice what, Jesus?
“You didn’t notice the rocks, tree limbs, pot holes, sometimes boulders, I put in your path to get you to stop long enough to reflect and take Me in to your headlong service for Me. Or was it you you served? I was so sorry to have to put ravines and washouts, like taking Darick and then the ranch all to slow you down and redirect you.”
No, this wasn’t the first time I knew the folly of my zeal, but it sure went deep. Apparently, not everything I did for Him pleased Him. I was serving in my strengths, the very one’s He designed in me, but not always IN His strength.
And, keeping that grin of love that rescued me from the deep pain I should feel, He added, “So, Martha, how are you feeling now?”
I instantly understood and it brought me back to a scene on another trail he walked with these very same sandals, long ago,“Master, don’t you care that my sister has abandoned the kitchen to me? Tell her to lend me a hand.” The Master said, “Martha, dear Martha, you’re fussing far too much and getting yourself worked up over nothing. One thing only is essential, and Mary has chosen it—it’s the main course, and it won’t be taken from her.”
RUNNING HITHER AND YON, SERVING THE LORD…Really?

Nov 12, 2010 @ 16:08:09
Dear Gary and Matt,
Now, THIS is what I’m talkin’ about! …… There is meat comin’ out of the “pulpit” now! I’m loving it. There is a place for everything in our walk with God but many people get stuck on the milk of the gospel and never go forward to the “hard sayings”. You have gone forward, it’s obvious. Thank you for sharing your soul with us, the good and the “bad”.
Before today, I never really “got” what was meant by the passage about Martha and Mary. As a result of your efforts, now, I get it. It sure took a long time for me to get it (!). Of course, I know that we understand when the Lord opens our eyes in His own time. I thank Him for you and what He has taught you so you can share with us. You’re a blessing to me.
This piece couldn’t have been more perfect for me today. I have many things to do but I must get my priorities in order and pray about it first. My pride almost got in the way, except for reading your blog. Thank you, Lord and thank you, Gary for being an instrument of His grace.
I’m looking forward to more pieces of wisdom and experience from your heart. I hope there are many, many more, if the Lord is willing. ….Amen.
Humbled, in Jesus,
Patti L.
Nov 15, 2010 @ 22:54:19
Well, then, Patti, there is the other side of the picture we get as we watch The Master eye the busy room inside those stone walls and probably on dirt floors. An old colleague email back to say, “Thank God for the peaceful, contempletive Mary’s. They’re alway around to tell the rest of us how it is suppose to be…but who in the heck is cooking the rice and swatting the flies for Jesus and his gang’s next meal?” Tough call to balance between gifts, ability, opportunity and the limited time to get it all done. That is when Mary looks up at me and says, “Martha, why don’t you rest awhile. I’ll cut the lamb roast while you dry Jesus feet.” Just never had very many willing Mary’s around so I did it all–at hyper speed–when, looking back, the hurry and haste was more mine, not His.
Nov 12, 2010 @ 21:58:46
Really nice post,thank you
Nov 16, 2010 @ 09:51:04
Great post Gary… I was fortunate to get to know you as the busy part was on a serious wind-down… I was with you as it happened, and while it was hard to watch, hard to see a brother wrestle so valiantly and to see you FEEL like you were losing, while you were really winning… God won, Carolyn won, you won.
Love you guys… miss hanging out.
Nov 17, 2010 @ 09:42:40
Vern, it was YOUR laughing Jesus that came to mind. How long ago was that? Thanks for the reminder, the insight, really. Noting the losing-winning issue has a lot to do with the backstory, doesn’t it? Speaking of hanging out, I leave tomorrow for Utah with the kids, bought six cigars from a local guy, good for three rides on Toffee and Misty, eh?